Tactics and Tools

Take This First Simple Step before You Respond

Author Alan Shlemon Published on 11/24/2021

If someone said to me, “Evolution is a well-proven fact,” I wouldn’t necessarily disagree. Their statement could be true. It could also be false. Why? Because I don’t yet know what they mean by “evolution.”

I understand that, for a Christian, the knee-jerk response is to disagree and marshal all our reasons. But what reasons would you be providing? What evidence would you levy against that statement? You can’t know what to say or even whether to agree or disagree until you first take an important step: Find out what they mean by “evolution.” The best way to do that is to employ the Columbo Tactic. First, however, we need to understand some terms.

The word “evolution” has a myriad of definitions; some are controversial, while others are innocuous. For example, evolution can simply refer to change over time. According to this definition, cities evolve, your hairdo evolves, your job description evolves—everything evolves. There’s nothing controversial about this definition, even from the perspective of a Christian.

A second and more common definition is the special theory of evolution (some refer to it as microevolution), which Charles Darwin articulated in the first part of his landmark book, On the Origin of Species. According to this definition, species can undergo small changes that alter their characteristics. A common example that’s cited in evolutionary textbooks is bacteria’s ability to develop resistance to antibiotics. This is why your doctor will tell you to finish the entire course of antibiotics if you’re sick with a bacterial infection. If you don’t, the bacteria that made you sick could change or “evolve” and develop a resistance to the antibiotic medication, rendering the treatment ineffective. These bacteria are the same bacteria as before, but now with a notable change. Notice that there’s nothing controversial about this definition and Christians can readily accept it.

A third definition of evolution is the general theory of evolution (often referred to as macroevolution), which Darwin also explained in his book. This definition of evolution is an extrapolation of microevolution and asserts that species can undergo large-scale changes. This third definition explains how four-legged land mammals (e.g. elomeryx)—over long periods of time—evolved into dolphins and whales. It attempts to explain how amphibians evolved into reptiles and how ape-like creatures evolved into modern humans. This definition of evolution is contested by many Christians.

Evolution can also refer to descent with modification and other definitions. It’s not necessary to specify all of them here. I’m also not trying to argue for or against any type of evolution. I’m only highlighting the fact that some definitions of evolution can be whole-heartedly accepted by faithful Christians, while other definitions might be rejected (for whatever reasons).

What’s critical to understand is that you can’t reply to the claim “Evolution is a well-proven fact” until after you have determined what they mean by that word. You must determine what definition of evolution they have in mind. If you don’t, you’re at risk of making a mistake and appearing foolish.

For example, imagine your knee-jerk response to that statement is to say, “No, it’s not. Evolution is not a well-proven fact.” Suppose also they have either of the first two definitions in mind (change over time or microevolution). What you have just communicated to them is that you don’t believe that change over time or microevolution is a well-proven fact. That’s not only untrue, but it makes you appear foolish.

That’s why it’s critical to first discover what they mean by evolution by employing the Columbo Tactic. If you’re familiar with Stand to Reason, you’ll probably be familiar with our use of this approach. The Columbo Tactic is about using questions—instead of statements—to make your point, respond to a challenge, or productively advance the conversation. Although there are three kinds of Columbo questions, I’m only referring to the first one here.

Here’s the key Columbo question: “What do you mean by that?” or (to apply it to our topic) “What do you mean by evolution?” Notice that is a very simple step. Anyone can ask that question. Plus, it shows that you are interested in their idea and are eager to understand them. It will also buy you some extra time as they explain what they mean by “evolution.”

Once they tell you which definition they are referring to, you can give an informed response to their actual view rather than to a position they don’t hold. This is not only the logical question to ask, it’s also the gracious thing to do.

This clarifying Columbo question applies to almost any conversation. If someone claims that stem cell research should be permitted, you can’t reply with “Yes it should” or “No it shouldn’t” until you first understand what they mean by stem cell research. Embryonic stem cell research kills an innocent human being, while adult stem cell research does not. If they are referring to adult stem cell research when you fervently claim they’re mistaken, they’re likely to wonder what’s wrong with you. Once you discover which form they are referring to, you can meet them on their terms and respond appropriately. Otherwise, you will miss their true meaning and your conversation will suffer.

The same is true of someone’s use of the term “pro-choice,” “Christian,” or “God.” Almost any word requires clarification, so your goal should be to understand their view before you respond to it.

Does it take extra time? Yes. Is it more work? Slightly. Will it pay off? Absolutely. In our world today, there’s far too much heat and too little light. Clarifying a person’s view isn’t going to necessarily increase agreement, but it will increase respect, understanding, and graciousness in any conversation and, consequently, in any relationship. That’s a necessity for any ambassador for Jesus Christ.